March 2012
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sharkmistress asked: When I was eighteen i had a conversation with my mom about bisexuality. She went on this rant that it doesn't exist and that people that thought they were, had a mental illness. we fought about it for an hour and she never let up. I'm 22 and I still like both genders. I don't know if I'll ever tell her, but I hope one day I'll get the courage to do so.
Anonymous asked: it broke my heart when my mum said she didnt believe in bisexuality. but she brought me up to not judge, that it was ok to be gay. she thought i was gay when i was a young teen and said it would be ok if i came out. i didnt know then, but i am bi. i cant be myself around my own mum. i also hate knowing my dad will be ok with it coz my step sis is gay and has bi friends. i want to come out to both...
February 2012
205 posts
Anonymous asked: Confession: the first time I learnt what 'bisexual' meant was when I was about 8 and watching TV with my mum. Someone came on the tv and said 'Im bisexual'. I already knew what straight and gay meant, and had been raised to believe that it's ok to be gay. So I asked my mum what bisexual meant. She told me it means someone likes both genders. Then she said 'not nice,...
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Lately I have been thinking a lot about my past and how I was happiest when I was with a girl compared to the relationships I have had with men. I have been wanting to revisit this and have been interested in seeing girls again. But in the last 6 years I haven’t permitted myself to get close enough to girls to have those emotional feelings because I don’t want another episode of my...
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Anonymous asked: I really love your blog it makes me feel in a way safe like im not alone
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My friends all found out I’m bi behind my back, before I was ready for them to know. I hadn’t come to terms with it yet and I was devistated. I feel like they stole something from me/betrayed me, and I don’t think I’ll ever get over it.
witchesvalley asked: Sometimes, I feel like my friends just hear what they want to hear. I told them that I was bi three times last year. And today, trying to make a point, I said something like "yeah, me and another friend who's also bi..." and they flipped their shit, like I'd never told them before. Shit gets on my nerves.
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I never really “came out” as bisexual. In like sixth grade, when all my friends started talking about girls they liked and whatnot, I would talk about guys and girls and none of my friends really seemed to care. I did the same thing around my mom. When I was like 11 I mentioned something about cute boys and she was like “You like boys?” and I was like “yeah, and...
ms-shiningstar asked: Thanks for the advice :) you're so good at what you do! you should be a therapist :D
dry-ic3 asked: There's this guy I like and this is going to be the first guy I want to pursue a relationship with, but the thing is is that I'm not sure if he's gay or bi. My friends have seen him and they tell me that he gives that vibe that he might be, but I'm not sure if that's the best thing to go off of you know? And the last couple of times I've seen him I always get choked...
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I told my best friend last night. It feels nice to have someone know, but she’s the only one I’m comfortable with telling for now. I’m still pretty happy though.
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I know alot of people send in things anonymously but with me, I feel like Tumblr is the only place that I can like really be myself and nobody will care so I’m going to be one of the few and just send it as me.
I have a problem… and it’s kind of a big one. My “Best Friend” of three years was the first girl I dated. And I wouldn’t really say ‘dated’...
constantimprovement asked: Hey right my sexuality is so freaking confusing!! The only thing leaping no persay is my friend Emma I love her to pieces and would be with her but don't want to ruin the friendship but then I prefer guys right and can get it up easy for guys but girls not so much haha I haven't done anything with either sex only kiss so what would you say my sexuality was? You can post this public I ya...
Anonymous asked: So, I have a big problem. I fell for a girl who I think is completely straight. She's a year younger than me. I'm sixteen. She's in the grade below me. And like, she's religious and she likes to hunt and I'm a musician and I consider myself just spiritual and I don't really like hunting D: I don't know what to do because she's super sweet and completely...
Anonymous asked: i sometimes feel that i should come out as a bisexual but sometimes i shouldn't (because haf of my family and half of my friends don't like the lgbt people) and i just get like nervous of what they would say. what should i do? or is their anther way?
Anonymous asked: i am a man when I was younger I was badly sexually assaulted by another guy and I told myself I would only have sex when i am TRULY in love I am a 21 year old virgin and i have found myself falling for girls and boys a like and then i become sexually aroused by them and not before what am I if i am not emotionally attracted to them i am not sexually attracted to them what am I am I gay straight bi...
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sonicfox asked: let's be friends people! :D
tellonesoul asked: I'm not the anon that just asked about making bi friends, but I guess I'll jump on the bandwagon! If anyone here wants a bi friend or someone to chat with, I'd love to :)
kanddyummy asked: This is a question from my friend: "I'm a straight guy and I have a bi girlfriend. Sometimes, I can't tell if she's just being friendly with her female friends or if its something I should be jealous about. Every time I try talking to her about this she gets mad that I don't trust her enough. I love and trust her. Advice?"
Anonymous asked: This might be a hard question to answer but would you know how to make more bi friends?
wesleyisaiah asked: don't you find it hilarious how people have so much negative things to say but yet thier too coward that they have to say things "anonymously"?
yodesconocido asked: for that anon who was asking about sexual vs. romantic attraction, it can be really difficult for some people, for example i tend to be more sexually attracted to guys and more romantically attracted to girls. it's rather frustrating sometimes :/ i've been friendzoned soooo many times you wouldn't believe it.
Anonymous asked: do you think some people claim bisexuality purely because they're horny?
Anonymous asked: thanks for making this blog :)
fuckyouiminlovewithjudas asked: damn, we're old son.
Anonymous asked: I tried being nice. Your advice is a piece of shit. Idc that you won't reply because I've unfollowed you. Good luck though :)
Anonymous asked: do you answer questions privately if the aren't anon?
Anonymous asked: may i ask how old u r?
Anonymous asked: That's the thing! Let me use myself as an example. I'm not fighting to have him I'm fighting to stop liking him. That's my point.
Anonymous asked: I'm pretty sure you're bi? and r u a girl?
ms-shiningstar asked: I just wanted to say that you are a great person for putting this page up. It's an amazing page and just... perfect advice. :) I am a sorta closeted bi-sexual. To put it shortly, I'm in the closet to everyone except my close friends and my mom. But you are a great help and It's amazing to see someone who just legit wants to help :)
Anonymous asked: How do you feel about people who say "no homo" and other phrases like that? I have a friend who says that a little too much and it makes me think she almost wants things to become "homo" in certain situations.
Anonymous asked: I came out to my friends as bi, only because I knew i wasnt straight. I think I might be a lesbian but for some reason that scares me... theres some negative connotation within me that makes me want to stay away from that word. Is it normal for me to want to switch back and forth?
Anonymous asked: So constructive criticism is now arguing? I'm not disputing the fact that you can't turn someone's sexuality. I deal with it every day of my life. What I'm saying is you should try to appreciate the pain that person is going through instead of acting like it's nothing. I've been trying to 'let it go' for 3 months. Does that mean I'm not trying? No....
Anonymous asked: Do you think having the ability to fall in love with someone of the same sex as well as the opposite sex makes you bisexual or just the sexual attraction alone to the same sex makes you bi? Just wondering your opinion.
Anonymous asked: That let it go advice you just gave was the worst you've given. You can't just 'let it go' it's really freaking hard and just about every member of the LGBT community knows that. Sorry I'm anon but I'm on my iPod.
Anonymous asked: Do you think someone who has been going through a questioning phase for over 4 years could truly be bisexual and possibly be in denial?
tenantsrebellion asked: p.s. thank you <3
dustyinthewind asked: I'm openly bi and practically everyone I know, knows. I currently have a crush on this one guy at my school, but I think he's straight. What should I do? :/
Anonymous asked: After giving this a lot of thought for the last two years, I'm pretty sure that I'm bi. When I first started questioning my sexuality, I told my best friend, and this month I told another good friend. I guess I just don't want to be labeled, yet part of me does kinda want to try dating a girl. My friend and I joined Spectrum and when I told that to my dad he sounded disgusted even...